Can people be so stupid?
Yeah, I'm angry. Yeah, I'm raging.
MY CHILD WAS STOLEN FROM ME.
I can't believe that anyone is stupid enough to think that this wouldn't leave a lasting anger.
And not only was my baby stolen, but I spent 14 years being told that I SHOULD BE HAPPY ABOUT IT, and getting guilt trips about it when I DARED to express that I was NOT happy about it AT ALL.
Yes, people can be so stupid.
Hell YES, I am FUCKING ANGRY.
There is something psychologically fucked up about you people who are so stupid that you think anger is an UNREASONABLE REACTION to having your child stolen from you through extortion.
Every one of you that tell me "get help" because I'm angry are the ones who need to get some counseling. The very fact that you think a towering anger is an irrational and unreasonable response to what happened to me shows that you lack any and all understanding of psychology and of human nature and of reality. Anyone who is NOT angry after their child is extorted from them is the one that is fucked in the head.
The fact that so many of you are so uncomfortable in the face of my anger goes to show part of what's so horrifically wrong with the adoption system in our country. You all are so upset that I am angry. You want me to get properly back into my closet because YOU don't like my anger. YOU are uncomfortable, and rather than ask yourself, "How the hell does someone get to the point where they are this angry??" you just tell me to stop being angry.
What kind of fucking MORON tells someone whose child was extorted and coerced from them to stop being angry?
You people are the ones with the severe malfunction. I already see a counselor, and I already know that my anger is not only reasonable and rational, but it's the completely expected and NORMAL reaction. The many years I spent hiding and denying my anger are what brought me to the point where I am livid.
Thanks to dumb cunts like those who come here and tell me to stop being angry.
I repeat, because apparently I have to repeat it every month:
Don't like me? GOOD. Don't like my anger? GOOD.
THIS is what adoption coercion and extortion create.
That you don't like it is the beginning of a very good change.
So please, hate me. You helped create me. If you don't like me, then you had better become active in making sure no more "me's" are created.
what the bible really says about adoption:
Thursday, January 10, 2008
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3 comments:
Am Ris, you have forever changed the way I think about adoption and for that, I thank you.
However, I abhor that you had to have your child taken from you for me to change my thinking. Of course your anger is proportional! I'm mildly surprised you're not completely mad! I cannot even fathom having my child taken from me. My heart aches for you. I do so hope that one day you are able to be reuinited with Austin. In the interim, I pray for you and the aching loss no amount of words can ever truly soothe.
Thank you. I sometimes honestly wonder if people actually LIKE bringing others pain.
The bright side of it is that as I see the people posting here, I am reminded of exactly what kind of closed minded society I am dealing with.
I must say I REALLY enjoyed this post. I am scrolling though & reading as fast as I can and absorbing as much a I can. Thank you for making your voice heard!
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